You’ve been working on your game for a while and you’ve fooled around with enough chicks to know that you’re ready to settle down.
Maybe you’ve not fooled around with many women but you just want that one girl as your girlfriend anyway (some guys are like that).
Whichever guy you are, I’m going to give you my refined method for hunting down that one special girl and making her yours within the quickest time possible.
I guess you can use this as kind of a vetting process for each new girl you meet over the next few weeks to several months.
So here goes…
What are you looking for and what do you want?
- Go on a lot of dates to see what you like and don’t like
- Write down the qualities and characteristics
- Think about where you want to meet her – Bar or club is possible, but you can also think smart about where to meet her. Do you like girls that keep fit? Go to the gym or group classes… maybe you like girls who are a bit creative? Go to Photoshop classes or painting groups.
When you meet a new girl
- Check if she’s a good girl – To do this you need to escalate quickly, which will tell you if she’s easy.
- How long were her previous relationships? You can tell how serious she is based on the length of each one.
- Ask her about her ex boyfriends – If she says that her ex’s are all crazy guys, then she’s obviously the kind of girl that attracts idiots. She might even be crazy herself!
- What’s her appearance like? Look for visual clues… does she have tattoos, piercings, fake nails, eyelashes, boobs etc. This may tell you something about her personality and characteristics.
- Lead the conversation in a positive way (paint an acceptable picture) – This is a good trick for seeing what she’s like as a person. If you say something like “This is an awesome club, I love going to places like these… do you go out a lot? If she says yes, then you know you have a party girl on your hands. With this approach, you’ll be able to find out exactly what type of girl she is and if she’s what you’re looking for.
- Does she check out other guys? Look at how she acts when you’re with her in clubs or bars. When you go to the toilet and she’s on her own, see how she reacts if guys come up to her.