How to Find your Dream Girl

So you want to know how to find your dream girl.
You’ve been working on your game for a while and you’ve fooled around with enough chicks to know that you’re ready to settle down.
Maybe you’ve not fooled around with many women but you just want that one girl as your girlfriend anyway (some guys are like that).
Whichever guy you are, I’m going to give you my refined method for hunting down that one special girl and making her yours within the quickest time possible.
I guess you can use this as kind of a vetting process for each new girl you meet over the next few weeks to several months.
So here goes…

She’s out there, but you need to do some digging.

What are you looking for and what do you want?

• Go on a lot of dates to see what you like and don’t like

• Write down the qualities and characteristics

• Think about where you want to meet her – Bar or club is possible, but you can also think smart about where to meet her. Do you like girls that keep fit? Go to the gym or group classes… maybe you like girls who are a bit creative? Go to Photoshop classes or painting groups.

When you meet a new girl

• Check if she’s a good girl – To do this you need to escalate quickly, which will tell you if she’s easy.

• How long were her previous relationships? You can tell how serious she is based on the length of each one.

• Ask her about her ex boyfriends – If she says that her ex’s are all crazy guys, then she’s obviously the kind of girl that attracts idiots. She might even be crazy herself!

• What’s her appearance like? Look for visual clues… does she have tattoos, piercings, fake nails, eyelashes, boobs etc. This may tell you something about her personality and characteristics.

• Lead the conversation in a positive way (paint an acceptable picture) – This is a good trick for seeing what she’s like as a person. If you say something like “This is an awesome club, I love going to places like these… do you go out a lot? If she says yes, then you know you have a party girl on your hands. With this approach, you’ll be able to find out exactly what type of girl she is and if she’s what you’re looking for.

• Does she check out other guys? Look at how she acts when you’re with her in clubs or bars. When you go to the toilet and she’s on her own, see how she reacts if guys come up to her.

So there you have it guys, my concrete method for finding your dream girl in the shortest amount of time possible.

How to Know When "Its On"

Imagine for a moment that you’re talking to a very attractive girl.

She’s exactly your type, and at that moment you feel like she’s the sexiest woman you’ve ever talked to.

The way she moves makes you melt. The way she bites her lip drives you wild. The way she looks at you makes your slacks a little tight. There is absolutely no doubt in your mind that you want her.

But how do you know if “it’s on?” There’s a difference between a girl being turned onand to say that “it’s on” between you and the girl.

At what point can you be sure that you can successfully escalate toward having sex with her without getting turned down?

You probably already know that, because of that “anti-slut defense” thing, a woman might not want to sleep with you even if you turn her on. What would her friends think? What if you get her pregnant? How would she feel about herself afterward? There are literally dozens of reasons for her to say NO even if she’s soaking wet with desire.

As a fairly reputable pickup artist, I’ve gotten to know a lot of other PUAs that many people consider masters of the art. Among these incredibly proficient seducers, one of them taught me something amazing that really simplifies things when it comes to figuring out if a girl is “DTF” or not.

I learned from my friend Chris that there is one simple test you can do to see if “it’s on” between you and the girl.

It’s called Mutual Hand Caressing.

While you’re flirting with a girl, you’re definitely going to be touching each other in various ways – you touch her arm while emphasizing a point, she playfully punches you while giggling when you tease her about something, you give her a high-five for saying or doing something you like, she excitedly hugs you for some reason or another, etc.

Mutual Hand Caressing, though, is one of these touching tricks that blasts past any and all uncertainty.

Here’s how it works:
Let’s say you’re at a point where you’re holding her hand. While you’re holding her hand, start caressing it.
If she reciprocates by caressing your hand back, it’s on!

Simple, right? It seems almost too simple to work… but it works every damn time.

As soon as I learned this incredibly simple yet profound little trick, I went out and tried it and I’ve been using it ever since. Needless to say, my “success rate” in getting laidskyrocketed.

You know what else really helped me out, though?

That same friend of mine, Chris, created an entire system chock full of simple concepts and even simpler tricks like these to almost literally put your seduction skills on autopilot.

If not being able to get laid quickly and efficiently has ever been an issue in your life,check out his system by clicking here and put your worries behind you.

How to Become Popular

The key to becoming popular is to give people what they want.

But wait, there’s more!

Did you really think that I’d be done in just one sentence?

After all, you can’t just survey all of the people you want to be friends with by asking them, “What do you want?” Most people don’t even know what they want.

That’s because most people aren’t popular.

You see, a popular person knows exactly what he or she wants. That’s a prerequisite for knowing how to give other people what they want.

Am I still speaking too abstractly here? OK, let me be more specific. I’ll tell you what you everyone wants.

Everyone wants to feel accepted. You want to feel accepted. That’s probably why you’re reading this article right now. In fact, you want to feel accepted so desperately, you’re trying your very best not to let anyone know that you want to feel accepted. Desperation is shameful, after all. The truth is, though… you’re not any different from anyone else in this regard.

Let me rephrase the first sentence I wrote in the beginning of this article.

The key to becoming popular is to give people what you want to get in a social context. More specifically, the key to becoming popular is to make other people feel accepted.

It’s very important to know what you want, and also how you want it. If you’re not used to any form of popularity at all, you probably don’t know how much it sucks for someone to relentlessly pour “acceptance” onto you by complimenting you too much, calling you several time a day, and overall just giving you way too much attention with fake smiles 24/7. So, you might read the advice I wrote above and mistakenly overdo the whole accepting-other-people thing.

Some people – and hopefully you’re not one of them – are so desperate for acceptance at an extreme level that they automatically assume that everyone wants the extreme attention and validation that they crave, so they become a spineless “nice guy” that annoys everyone with his needy “giving” behavior.

I’m guessing that many of you reading this, however, have absolutely no clue that other people want any acceptance from you in the first place! You might have a poor self-image and think of yourself as “low value” because people don’t give you acceptance. If you’re low-value, why would other people want acceptance from you?

Well, that line of thinking is a bunch of rationalized bullshit based on the illusion of separation created by your ego. If you think you’re low-value, it’s not because of a lack of acceptance you get from others. It’s because you think of yourself as low-value that you’re low-value.

You know what, though? Don’t even think about value. Everyone on this planet is a human being just like you. We’re all fighting the good fight called life. We may all have different circumstances and blessings and troubles that make us unique individuals, but in the end humanity is just one big ocean of value that constantly flows in a dynamic manner. There’s no point in keeping track of separate value rankings for different people because we’re all connected anyway.

Now that we got the philosophy out of the way, let’s get back to the main point:

To become popular, you must give acceptance to others. Instead of constantly wanting to receive acceptance from others, you must shift your focus to making other people feel good first.

Think about all of the most popular people you know in your life right now. No, I’m not talking about the jocks and cheerleaders from high school way back in your hormonal days. I’m assuming that all my readers are old enough to drink alcohol, so try to remember the last party you went to.

Popular dude walks into the room. What happens? All of a sudden the room lights up and everyone is giving him attention and acceptance. Well, at least that’s what you saw at first. Now try to think of it in the context of which direction the energy is flowing from the popular dude. You might notice that he was basically radiating positive energy outward, as is he were giving everyone good energy.

Unpopular shy dude walks into the room. Everyone looks at him for a split second then they go back to whatever they were doing. Why? He didn’t stand out because his energy was flowing in the opposite direction. He wasn’t focused on giving anyone anything. He was too busy worried about what everyone else thought of him.

I could go on and on about this topic, but I’ll leave it at that for now. You get what I’m saying, right? 

Never Worry About What to Say - Storytelling Techniques

Women LOVE this stuff!

One of the biggest issues that I ran into when first starting out in game (like the majority of guys do also) is not knowing what to say or having a conversation with a girl dry up REALLY quickly after opening her.
The reason why you have nothing to say or a conversation just goes cold, is because you’re thinking far too much about what to actually say.
So you do the most natural thing any human would do when they first meet a new person… you go into interview mode as a way of keeping the conversation going.
This as you know is SOOOOO bad for attraction and will kill any rapport stone dead!
So today I want to teach you some awesome improvised storytelling techniques.
Once you begin using these storytelling tips you’ll soon discover that not only will your interactions with girls be a lot longer without any awkward pauses, but the girl will feel way more attraction towards you thus decreasing flakes when you number close.
Here are the techniques:

Killer storytelling techniques

So the aim of a good story is the hook the listener and get them so wrapped up in your words that they are lost in the moment.

1. Hook the listener (strong opening)

Hooking is where you open something that instantly gets the listeners attention and they either say they want to hear more or they are just silent waiting for your next word.
A good hook needs to pack a punch, a one liner that will intrigue… shock and spark curiosity. For example you might say “I was actually with a friend the other day and something happened which pretty much changed his life…”.

2. Pausing and pacing

Any good storyteller will tell you that the pause will create anticipation (this keeps them listening) and the pacing injects emotion/feeling into the story. By using both together, you’re dealing with a magical combo.
So make sure you slow down when speaking, you emphasise every word and you pause every couple of sentences.

3. Bridging the story

Each story can be broken down into segments, let’s say for the sake of this example that you have a story with 5 segments. With each segment, you need to bridge the gap with a cliffhanger, otherwise it will seem as though your story doesn’t have any substance and just goes on and on.
A cliffhanger is something TV shows use to keep people watching and not changing the channel. You HAVE to keep watching otherwise you’ll miss the good bit. You need to do the same thing with your stories.
To do this, just say something like “…You’ll never guess what happened next…”.

4. Be personal

One of the key things we want to happen during our story is for the girl to trust us and feel more comfortable in our presence, which leads to attraction.
So by you telling her about something that happened to you, she will be able to relate to you and will instantly feel more trust.
This means you need to use reference points from your life.

Making your stories better

• Eye contact – By keeping strong eye contact, you’ll evoke trust quicker and you’ll keep the girl engaged in your story.

• Touching – Touching her at the right moments will spark feeling and emotion, so use kino when you can. It also allows you to be more sexual.

• Using comedy – Obviously by using humour in your stories you will create attraction spikes throughout, so make sure you work on your comedy a bit.

Here’s a great example of how to tell a story:

Other storytelling techniques to remember

• Practice – Yes practicing sucks, but it’s the only way you will get better at telling stories that captivate women. So make it a point to practice as often as you can. I personally practiced 7 days a week in the early days, because I knew that it would make me better much faster.

• Sign up for a workshop – Just like with our bootcamps, if you are surrounded by people that want to get better with storytelling and you’re practicing with an experienced teacher, then you’re going to drastic results… far quicker than if you were to just practice on your own.

There you have it bro. Improvised storytelling techniques that will keep any girl captivated and hanging on your every word.

3 Types of Women Men Should b Aware of

Does she like you?

Whenever I’m out and talking to a woman, either in a bar/club… language school (yes I go to language school, amazing for women) coffee shop or anywhere else for that matter, I always look at their character type and current behaviour.
Why do I do this?
Simple, it gives me a great starting point from where I should take the interaction.
So for example, if I’m in a bar and a girl gives me an IOI (indicator of interest) I know that she’ll fit into one of the below character types and it means I can kick things off with a more sexual vibe, as opposed to being more reserved if she didn’t show any interest.
You see no matter what the girl or place, you can always place them into any one of these 3 character types and you’ll know exactly what to do next based on that.
Cool right?
Obviously the end goal here is to sleep with the girl, possibly even turn her into your girlfriend if you like her enough… but if you’re not attracted to her, then don’t bother placing her into one of these character types, just treat her as a friend.
Ok, let’s get into the good stuff.

The unreceptive type

What she will do

A girl who is unreceptive will show herself to be unavailable, disinterested in anything you say and would appear to have her mind on something else. These can sometimes be tough nuts to crack, they can also be bitchy, so gauge the situation first.

How to deal with her

You need to grab her attention and allow her to start opening up (hopefully even working for your attention). To do this you must…

• Stack the cards in your favour, by using social proof if you’re in a bar or club. Even ask your wingwoman to help you out by warming her up a bit. You need to build more value for yourself, so she sees you as a high status male.

• Use assumptions to spike her intrigue and make her work for your attention. Saying something like “You look Brazilian… English girls don’t dress like that…”

• Kino regularly, but make sure you start off slow. When you touch her too many times, too soon she will get freaked out. So build up slowly and touch her more based on her reaction to it.

Why she is being unreceptive towards you

• You are coming across as a needy guy, which is a REAL turn off

• She may have a boyfriend or husband, so looking for a ring or dropping in a line like “Are you like this with your boyfriend?” is a good way of telling whether she’s taken.

• Her values, beliefs and even interests are different to you. Religion may even play a part here which can be a real disaster.

• She could have recently split up with her boyfriend so is feeling a little sensitive and just not looking for anything with another guy right now.

The neutral type

What she will do

A neutral girl will be friendly, she’ll smile, make eye contact and just be receptive to talking. But won’t show any signs of attraction or interest, it’s generally just her being polite and open.

How to deal with her

As she isn’t bitchy or unreceptive you have to test her reactions by reading her body language and using rapport / sexual escalation. Here’s how to do that…

• You need to let her know that you’re not a potential “friend” but a sexual partner, so touching, being more aggressive and being more confident will help achieve this.

• Use kino and ramp up the sexual escalation until you can visibly see that she’s attracted to you. If she is unresponsive to your kino, then you need to build more rapport.

• Avoid talking about boring topics that will kill any sexual attraction, keep making assumptions about her and be playful.

Why she is being neutral towards you

• Unlike men who see a woman and instantly decide whether they would like to sleep with them or not, women are WAY different. They need a lot more persuading before they will jump into bed with him, even if they find him attractive.

• It’s a natural defence mechanism towards guys, so although she’s friendly it doesn’t mean she’s necessarily attracted.

The receptive type

What she will do

A receptive girl is the easiest of the 3 and there really isn’t much that you need to do. She’s already attracted to you, responding very well to your kino and maintaining eye contact.

How to deal with her

Receptive girls are far easier to get into bed as the hardest part is already done. All you need to do is focus on keeping the sexual tension alive and closing. Here’s how to do it:

• Be sexual and start kinoing from the moment you begin talking, this will put her in a sexual mindset. Keep being as physical as you can with her, so that she has no doubt in her mind that she’s going to sleep with you.

• Connect with her by using rapport building questions and keep going deeper with the questions, until you’re talking sexually… take it as far as you can.

Why she is being receptive towards you

• You’ve lucked out and you just so happen to be her type of guy, the kind of guy that she always goes for.

• She’s feeling extra frisky that night and is open to doing more than she usually does, so just needs some gentle persuasion.

• She hasn’t been laid in a while and needs a guy to take the lead.

So that’s it dude, those are the 3 categories I place women into based on their character types at the time. This really helps, so go ahead and start using it the next time you’re out.

How to Get out the Friend Zone

In order to get out of the friend zone, you need to first work out why she might be doing it and this will give you a better understanding of how you can stop it from happening any further.

• If she has a boyfriend (or even if she doesn’t) she still likes the comfort of having a guy like you pandering to her. You buy her drinks, call her and listen to her moaning about stuff for hours, buy her dinner… and give her the attention she craves.

• She doesn’t want to start a relationship with you mainly because it could ruin the relationship she has going with you. The easy ride.

BREAK THE PATTERN

By breaking the current pattern, you will kickstart feelings she wouldn’t have felt for you before (the same feelings you have for her)… but you need to cool throughout the process. Don’t turn into that needy little bitch that she uses.

• When on the phone, make an excuse to end the conversation mid flow. Like “Hey listen, I need to go I’m cooking at the minute and something is burning, I’ll speak to you in a bit”.

• When you’re busy, don’t meet her or make special plans for her. Treat her like a normal friend “Hey, yeah sorry I have plans already… maybe another time though”.

• When you hug her, hug her like a friend would… no creepy needy stuff. Pat her on the back, hug her with one arm and throw her off the scent.

• Make remarks about other girls when you’re with her. “Oh she’s hot” and “Do you have any hot friends you can introduce me too?”

• Talk about dates you’ve been on with other girls (don’t rub it in too much though).

SHOW HER YOU’RE A HIGH VALUE MALE

• Be the guy that’s in demand – When she tries her usual tricks, block her and make her think that you’re a high value in demand man. This will make her want to chase you and work for you.

• Stop being predictable – If you speak at a certain place… stop going there. If she calls you at a certain time, don’t answer the phone. Don’t reply to texts too quickly, just make her feel like you’re cool without her and have a life.

GETTING HER INTERESTED IN YOU

Now you’ve thrown her off the scent, you want to spark some interest and make her think about what it would be like if she dated you.

• Look for signs of attraction – Is she asking you whether she looks good in a dress? Is she touching you a lot more than she used to? Is she flirting? These are all signs that she’s starting to like you more than a friend.

• Meetup with her – Now that she’s interested you need to create a situation where you’re both alone having a drink together so you can escalate physically, but in a playful way.

• Kiss her – Mid-way through the interaction, give her a quick kiss on the lips (hold her face and do it in a sensual way) then say “Hold a minute, we shouldn’t be doing this… this is so bad”. Then kiss her again and say the same thing. She will begin to justify why it’s a good thing which is what you want.

So there you have it, my friend zone destroyer technique. Never again will you be in the friend zone!

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